2022.01.28 18:35 chromerhd EUW bronze took a break for a few months
2022.01.28 18:35 tortllaa Nothing Good Happens After 10pm
This is the advice my therapist gave me in high school when I mentioned that my friends and I sometimes met up with our group of male counterparts late at night. We'd usually meet at our high school since none of us had cars or houses of our own. These meetups were surprisingly innocent given that our male friends were of the skatestoner variety. (We'd play Sharks and Minos on the football field or Hide and Go Seek, in case you were wondering.) And so at the time, I disregarded this advice. It's only in hindsight that I see instances of when following this advice would have saved a lot of heartache.
For example, boys initiating text conversations late a night only to ask for nudes. If I said no or stopped responding I would get bombarded with messages like 'pls, i need it, cmon,' etc until I finally relented. Or being asked to meet up by a group of boys because the shopkeepers won't expect a girl to steal alcohol. The catalyst for my radical life change was being sexually assaulted by multiple boys while I was blackout drunk-- the product of no parental oversight, inexperience with alcohol, 'friendships' with evil boys, and me agreeing to text and meetup with males after 10pm.
I was in high school when these things happened and I don't blame myself, but I do take these events seriously and I've learned from them. Which of us doesn't have stories of being pressured by men under the cover of moonlight?
As an adult, I've applied this rule to my life in more ways than one (and the times I've ignored it have only hindered my lifestyle). As women in the world, dating or otherwise, I suggest we all adopt this rule.
No, I will not go out after 10 pm to meet for a drink or 'hangout' (obvious signs of a booty call)
No, I will not answer my phone after 10pm. I don't care why you're texting. It can wait until tomorrow.
No, I won't stay out past 10pm. This is a new application of the rule I'm trying out after some undesirable experiences at 'the club.' I've found that while dancing with my girlfriends is fun, it isn't worth being followed, touched, and harassed by men who haven't showered and think showing up to the club in zip-up hoodies and stained jeans is acceptable. (If we don't know each other, why the fuck are you touching me?)
I also apply this rule to female friendships, especially the early stages. If we're still getting to know each other then we can do that during the day or early evening. I have no idea why women would think I want to meet them at some dive bar at 11pm and drink tequila.
Protect your time. Protect your peace. Go to sleep early and wake up the following morning feeling refreshed, healthy, and ready to slay the day. Do not sacrifice your time, energy, or body for male attention/validation.
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2022.01.28 18:35 0_0xz got a perm 1 hour ago and i dont remember being bald above my forehead is this normal or did the perm got rid of some of my hair? if so how do i hide it?
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2022.01.28 18:35 chrysal7sm What if letting you go is the best way to show that I love you?
I love you. But honestly, I think you'll end up with a friend of mine.... I would even help her. I think you'll both be better off for it.
Because love isn't always what will satisfy my heart. You don't keep love to yourself. Love is sacrificing your own desires for the sake of others.
What is love? Paul wrote the following:
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
If I would keep you for myself, even though I know I could not make you happy, then would that really be called love?
I would even argue that self-seeking love is not really love at all; but rather greed.
I can't love you right. I'm tired, like always, due to many sleepless nights and my life is a gigantic mess. When it takes everything in me to stay alive and there's not much left of me inside, giving what I have to you would only end up hurting us both. You don't deserve that.
That's why I hope she'll be the one for you. She's loving, kind, nurturing, sensitive and so good with people. She loves music and has the most beautiful voice; it'll melt your heart. I know you love singing too. I can already picture you two sitting on a bed at night playing songs on your guitar. I know she'd love all of you and you would love all of her. The two of you will love God with all your heart. I know you'd built each other up. You'll try new things, go on adventures. Your home would be a home to all. That's just the kind of people you two are.
I couldn't give you what you need and you deserve to know you're loved. You deserve someone like her and she deserves someone like you.
It will hurt for a while, but I will be alright. I will step aside, to make room for this new love, so it can blossom into this beautiful garden.
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2022.01.28 18:35 __sami__01 Wholesome Moment Between KSI and BIG Behz
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2022.01.28 18:35 DealComprehensive427 Options addiction gone bad
I started day trading options instead of stocks and managed to drain $75,000 down to $25,000 in a matter of less than 2 months. Having a hard time shaking off the “all in” mentality from trading stocks. I’m not really in financial trouble but I lost sleep last night about the situation. Certainly going to slow my roll but any strategic suggestions how I can regain momentum and stay active, without simply waiting years for some ETF to fix me? I was up net up over $100,000 last year and the worst has almost happened! Thx y’all.
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2022.01.28 18:35 MerpItUp New short video on the recent r/AntiWork drama | Watch for watch only, sub if you like but I don't want sub4sub
Title says it all, down to expose my videos to new people and check out theirs in return, but I only want genuine subscribers. Thanks yo!
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2022.01.28 18:35 riversun What the hell do I even do here
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2022.01.28 18:35 NoctgenisisDreams Shader Program Question
So, I have multiple shaders in my program now and they work fine. While I was getting them to work however I encountered a little issue that I resolved but I am not happy with how I fixed it.
As of now I have two shaders, one for drawing the world, one for drawing text. After activating the text shader nothing from the world shader was drawn. This caused issues but I fixed it by calling useprogram on the world shader again displaying both the world and the text now.
I don't feel like that is the correct solution though and wanted to ask if there was a better one.
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2022.01.28 18:35 ErMike2005 I'm trying to create a datapack that modifies a crafting recipe of the mod "Fabric Waystones", but it doesn't work. Does someone know how to do it?
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2022.01.28 18:35 Lester2031 Tzuyu's Jiggle
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2022.01.28 18:35 Jamhandman Built a 3x8 polytunnel on 4 acre property in Co.Westmeath, Ireland to grow and not buy as much food as possible.
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2022.01.28 18:35 Lu1slayer Which song is going to be the tour oppener? Place your bets!
The tour is about to start and the first song is really important to set the mood of the show.
Which song do you think is going to be the one they are oppening the show with? Then we can come back to this topic to see if we were right.
I say its going to be "Follow You" is the first single and such a fun song, so it would be a great start of a great concert (imo)
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2022.01.28 18:35 dvallej Fractals and Chill #77
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2022.01.28 18:35 bout_that_action Join Ibotta and get a $10 WELCOME BONUS after submitting your first grocery store receipt
2022.01.28 18:35 prismatika_on_tumblr Azuki [Nekopara] by Aranee, Araneesama (2022)
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2022.01.28 18:35 juandissimos_mom Strike Funds
Please post as many verified strike funds if you can!!! There's been a ton of drama over the last few days but we can still support striking workers all the same!
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2022.01.28 18:35 n0b0dykn0ws3 Outside projected on my wall through pinhole camera effect
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2022.01.28 18:35 Patmaster1995 I'd love if 343 added cross attachments, look how dope these looks
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2022.01.28 18:35 Stanleys_potential If times got really tough, could you handle it if, they got tougher?
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2022.01.28 18:35 GeorgeYDesign Ash Barty has dominated at the Australian Open. Did training in Brisbane give her an edge?
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2022.01.28 18:35 PsychedelicMention "LSD" in /r/TooAfraidToAsk: What happens if you take a tab of LSD right before you fall a sleep?
2022.01.28 18:35 abforever2306 Almost halfway there ! 😊🤞
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2022.01.28 18:35 Gregograyo This is way better than SYWIF
2022.01.28 18:35 Extreme_Mud3643 heavy moment
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