2022.01.24 16:40 throwaway141627 Blank liquidation
2022.01.24 16:40 KeiiLime I need to cut off an old friend i’ve had for years, but am unsure how to do so
Long story short, I’m a member of multiple marginalized groups, he’s a sheltered white guy, and I was a coward and let him saying messed up stuff slide for way too long, to the point he’s recently posted some overtly fucked up things.
I’ve somewhat given him the silent treatment the past month, too nervous to say or do anything big. But, that in itself feels like continuing to be a coward. So, i drafted this:
real talk- i used to have a lot of respect for you/ care for you a lot as a friend. when i say something i mean it, so years ago when i said i wouldn’t be like people that just come & go/ that i’d stick with you, when i said i cared, i meant that shit.should i send it? change it in some way and then send it? i’m honestly really nervous just thinking about it, but at the same time, he really does need to hear it from someone, and maybe it’d give me some closure.
unfortunately, i also i hate making people i care for uncomfortable, so i let a lot slide that genuinely, i wish i hadn’t. maybe then things would be different. tried to finally speak up this past year, but even then it feels like it just turns into me putting in a ton of emotional labor just for you to take the easy out of “it just opinions, it’s just a joke” when shit gets serious.
i should have been a better friend and called out things i let slide rather than try to keep it out of sight/ out of mind by distancing myself and being silent. i should’ve been a better friend and given you genuine criticism from an outside perspective so you don’t keep going through the same cycles of people coming and going, and the same bad behaviors repeating and amplifying themselves. i’m genuinely sorry i didn’t, for what it’s worth.
all this said, it’s telling as hell how quick you were to abandon any semblance of respect for marginalized groups the second i really started to distance myself. seeing you fake being a friend to my face and say the things you do about people like me behind my back, it’s fake as hell, and i’m done with it.
i’ve always tried to give you the most benefit of the doubt. i know you can be better than this, and despite it going against my own experience with pretty much anyone else i’ve given the benefit of the doubt, i’d like to think a part of you wants to. at this point though, being a better person is on you. i’m tired of setting myself on fire to keep others warm.
i hope this is a wake up call, but regardless, i’m done calling someone who would say such awful things about people like me behind my back a friend. goodbye, (friend).
2022.01.24 16:40 Premedapp1252 Adding 5 to regice attack, add me at 9471 2990 6698!
2022.01.24 16:40 iRoadz Is it too late for us?
Almost 5 months ago we broke up. Because of my issues. It was mainly because we were toxic but I blame my own issues for it. She did nothing wrong looking back at it. Me and my therapist came to the conclusion that the relationship failed because I was too addicted to her. This makes sense because by that point she was the only thing keeping me alive. Now fast forward five months I had to do a lot of things once we broke up to remain alive. So by now, I'm taking medication that actually helps me, I'm sober, I used to drink every single day back then and I'm going to the gym regularly and have amazing friends. Do you think it's too late for us? I still love her very much and she's the only person I actually want. Do you think there's a chance to get back together?
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2022.01.24 16:40 Kugloaf NOT EASY 🔥 Frida Paulsen - Fitness Motivation 2022
2022.01.24 16:40 Fancy_Wing1266 Is MKX still somewhat populated on ps4?
I had both mkx and 11 on my xbox but switched and have got an urge to play one of them again. I was not a massive fan of 11 so im just curious if X is still played by anyone?
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2022.01.24 16:40 Nomadic_desert_boi Anybody else struggle to eat when they are stressed and depressed?
2022.01.24 16:40 JT_775 Getting the help I need is easier said than done...yet I'm still responsible for my actions
Everywhere I go to get the help I need I run into a roadblock. It'll either cost money I don't have or insurance won't cover it. EMDR therapy. I went and investigated that and my insurance won't cover it. I was looking at TMS treatment and MerT treatment. Neurostar treatment I keep running into delays. The doctor there won't even look into my insurance policy to see if it will cover it. I called another office to inquire about MerT treatment and insurance don't cover that at all and the cost is astronomical. So right now I think my only option is to get on some meds that very well likely has sexual side effects and weight gain. Which to me are deal breakers.
I've been very pressed to get the help I need and yet at the same time I'm still responsible for my actions. By the way I don't disagree with that perse, one is responsible for how one acts regardless of how one feels. But still. That's a hard boat to pull.
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2022.01.24 16:40 CueNoLife We have a permanent DMM world....
Why can't we get some tech (which I'm sure is already there, but Jagex is probably unsure how to properly set it up, so it doesn't crash and burn) to allow for PERMANENT "Previous League" world(s).
They could start with five worlds and add or remove worlds based on popularity. The problem this arises is "We don't want to split our players", which I understand, however, money is also on the horizon. Having players play Leagues and potentially their mains, ironmen, etc. could mean more revenue (maybe?)
I could see it being troubling in "How do we merge XP" because each league is unique, and personally, I think you just overwrite game-saves after the NEXT league launches.
Ex. Current League is: Shattered Relics. We should be able to play Shattered Relics in competition NOW, and when it's over, continue our Shattered Relics progression until the next league, and onward. They implemented tech to save players pets, maybe they would find a way to save players items as well, and just overwrite stats, or something. It seems disgruntling to some players that they have to start over from scratch and lose EVERYTHING at the end.
If DMM can have a permanent game-mode/world, why can't leagues?
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2022.01.24 16:40 xhighway-unicornx ;)
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2022.01.24 16:40 FailingFatSchaub Christ Del Yeehaw's County Intake Photo
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2022.01.24 16:40 HeavyKreme Adorable
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2022.01.24 16:40 zhusci I guess the third generation is over. Am i forgeting something?
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2022.01.24 16:40 Disastrous_Can_5466 I accept you challenge u/sirsnickersnee but you should really give up now, my aim is explendid
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2022.01.24 16:40 SheaMasonMusic Through The Noise \\ Shea Mason // WY Sessions
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2022.01.24 16:40 CleanCut79 Ghostbusters Done Quick
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2022.01.24 16:40 tytenbih I kind of … dislike the cherish ball. When I see it on the screen at the poke center it’s cool but battling with it ugh ew
2022.01.24 16:40 cthompsonguy BotC as a teambuilding exercise
I work in the IT department of a small college. Over winter break, I had a large game of BotC to which I invited a senior member of my team at work, and though he was unable to attend, he suggested approaching the department for an after-work game as a teambuilding exercise. The theme was a concern of course, but bossman gave it a thumbs up and some of the department jumped in. It's mostly just my team of nerds, but a few people from other teams within the department will be joining us.
It's scheduled for this Friday evening, and we have 7 coworkers joining, most of them with 1-3 family (wives, a few middle/high school kids) joining as well. We're running Trouble Brewing of course, and I've been Storyteller for that script about 20 times now, so I'm relatively confident, but this will be the first time I've had a group consisting almost entirely of people who haven't played any social deduction before. Thankfully, one coworker and my wife (who will also be playing) have played 20+ games and can help answer questions while I'm building the bag and whatnot.
Does anyone have any recommendations for Storytelling such a novice group? My usual process in which we have at least one new player is to read the intro (basics of social deduction, hand signals, the 4 cardinal rules, nomination process) and run through all of the characters on the script quickly.
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2022.01.24 16:40 Gbk_choppayt Xbox is a great gaming console
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2022.01.24 16:40 Casper2506 Any improvements? 150k budget. Looking forward to Get rid of Theo.
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2022.01.24 16:40 elf0curo L'incantevole Elisabeth Shue in Leaving Las Vegas (1995) di Mike Figgis.
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2022.01.24 16:40 DeantheObscene Building a database for snake images pdf image extraction?
I'm building a database of snake images, the issue I'm having is that I'm working with old photocopies of textbooks. So what I want to extract all the images separately into jpeg files without the text. Is there a tool or function through Acrobat or another program that would let me do this?
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2022.01.24 16:40 CyberHeroSociety Roadmap Released for New Project
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2022.01.24 16:40 Midnight-Reasonable My new desk came with a squishmellow cubby
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2022.01.24 16:40 someguylikingmemes How did this tiny fleet destroy a 15k???
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